HI,
The American author, James Baldwin said:

"The price one pays for pursuing any profession, or calling (I would add experience) is an intimate knowledge of it's ugly side."

Lisa paid the ultimate price and I am here not only   to show you the ugly side, but to try to help you from experiencing it.

I love society and all Lisa's sisters.

First and foremost, know that you are a valuable person and have the right to be free of anyone who would harm you in any way.   You have what it takes, all you have to do is help yourself.  Help is out there for us, but we have to recognize the need.
First and foremost, LOVE AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF!

I was a young mother who always thought that the legal system was fair and balanced and that women had pretty much achieved equality.  I was shocked and horrified at how not true that was.  I experienced it first hand with my daughter, Lisa Bianco, her experiences and eventually, her murder by her ex-husband, Alan Matheney.   I then became a victim's advocate and worked in legislation and learned more.  I vowed at the height of our fleeing from the stalker's hunt that someday I would attempt to educate the public as to what it's really like for women and attempt to define why this is true. The book is titled "Who Killed Lana B?"  I do not, however, excuse domestic violence from women nor any use of the system to intimidate a man. My book will be controversial because, unlike my lobbying days, political correctness will not be a priority.  There is general research along with what I call my considered opinions based on my experiences.  It is not a "for women only" book, but a book for everyone.   Who Killed Lana B?     Who  do you think?