HI, JUST CAME HOME TO INDIANA FROM MY LITTLE FLORIDA HOME FOR A VISIT. ONE OF THE FIRST PRIORITIES IS GOING TO THE CEMETARY WHERE LISA IS BURIED BESIDE HER BROTHER JUST AS ALAN MATHENEY PROMISED HER SHE WOULD BE IF SHE PUT HIM IN JAIL. THEY'RE UNDER A PINE TREE. WE HAD LOTS OF PINE TREES WHERE WE LIVED. I'LL BE THERE SOMEDAY, TOO. WHEN I WAS RAISING LISA'S TWO GIRLS AND WORKING AND WORKING FOR VICTIMS, SOMETIMES I WOULD GET SO FRUSTRATED AND TIRED THAT I WOULD GO OUT TO THE CEMETARY AND SIT ON THE PLOT TO GET AS CLOSE TO THEM AS I COULD. iT SEEMED AS THOUGH I COULD HEAR LISA SAYING: "MOM, I DON'T NEED YOU NOW, BUT THEY DO. I KNEW SHE MEANT HER GIRLS. THIS TIME WHEN I SAT THERE I HEARD IT AGAIN, BUT THIS TIME I KNOW SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT YOU, THE PEOPLE WHO COME TO THIS SITE AND/OR READ THE BOOK. I READ A SAYING THAT THE SUPERIOR PERSON FINDS WITHIN HIM/HERSELF ALL THAT THEY SEEK. THE SMALLER PERSON FINDS IT IN OTHERS. START BY USING YOUR INNER STRENGTH TO LEARN, CHANGE, HELP AND FIND THE FREEDOM AND POWER YOU HAVE WITHIN YOURSELF. iT'S IN THERE. THEN FIND THOSE WHO WANT TO HELP YOU. THEY'RE THERE.
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IF YOU ARE IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU ARE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO VALUE YOURSELF AND RESOLVE NOT TO EVER LET ANYONE THINK THAT THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO LAY THEIR HANDS ON YOU. iF YOU DON'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT, YOU SEND THE MESSAGE THAT IT'S OK. WAITING FOR SOMEONE TO CHANGE MIGHT BE YOUR DEATH NOTICE. FOLLOW ALL THE STEPS AND PERSIST UNTIL YOU ARE FREE.
IF YOU ARE OR ARE NOT A VICTIM, ONE OF THE MOST APPRECIATED THINGS THAT PEOPLE REMEMBER ABOUT LISA IS THAT SHE REALIZED THE VALUE OF EDUCATION AND PUT HERSELF THRU COLLEGE. THEN, EVEN THOUGH SHE COULD HAVE GONE INTO THE BUSINESS WORLD AND FORGOTTEN ABOUT IT, SHE USED HER EDUCATION TO HELP WOMEN IN SIMILAR SITUATIONS BECAUSE SHE KNEW WHAT IT WAS LIKE. THERE IS NO GREATER OR MORE REWARDING PURPOSE THAN TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE LIFE OF ANOTHER PERSON, AND HOPEFULLY, MANY PEOPLE. THERE IS NOTHING THAT SUCCEEDS MORE THAN PERSISTENCE. IT IS A POSITIVE WAY TO CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETY AND YOU WILL HAVE LEFT YOUR MARK AND CONTRIBUTION. IT CAN BE ANYTHING FROM VOLUNTEER WORK TO LEGISLATION. WE'VE BEEN LEFT BEHIND FOR TOO LONG. LET'S KEEP UP THE MOMENTUM!!. MILLIE THERE'S A LOT OF CURRENT DISCUSSION ABOUT NEANDERTHAL DNA FOUND IN MODERN MAN. I, FOR ONE, WOULD BE OFFENDED IF I WERE A NEANDERTHAL.
STUDIES INDICATE THAT ALL GREAT APES (AND IF HOMO SAPIENS ARE A TYPE OF GREAT APE) HAVE THE ABILITY TO KKNOW WHEN A FEMALE IS OVULATING AND WILL HAVE SEX ONLY WITH OVULATING FEMALES. MODERN MAN, ON THE OTHER HAND-----WELL, ---YOU KNOW,--- WILLL HAVE SEX ONLY WHILE HE IS BREATHING. THIS SEEMINGLY UNCONTROLLABE URGE DESIGNED TO KEEP PEOPLE ON THE PLANET, FOR SOME IS THE MOTIVATING FACTOR IN RAPES, SEXUAL ASSAULTS, MOLESTATIONS, STALKINGS, SEX DRIVEN MURDERS, TORTURE AND ALL KINDS OF PERVERSIONS. WHILE I AM NOT ADVOCATING SEX ONLY FOR PROCREATION, IT WOULD BE GREAT IF THE GUYS COULD FIND A HAPPY IN BETWEEN. HATS OFF TO THE NEANDERTHALS! |