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REMEMBERING ANOTHER MOTHERS DAY

5/8/2012

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 I remember another Mothers Day when the girls, Brooke and Amber were 6 and 10.  Lisa's lawyer had told her to get out of town because there was no stopping a man obsessed and to whom a restraining order was just a piece of paper.  We took off in the dark of night, like fugitives.  We stayed in off-the-road motels and once in a friend's summer cottage.  We were staying in one of the out-of-sight motels.  I woke up Mother's Day morning to find that Lisa had managed to waken the girls and leave before I woke up.  She soon returned with breakfast from McDonalds and she presented me with a Mothers coffee mug that she had managed to pick up during our travels.  Running for her life and treating her mother on her day.  Isn't that what all mothers do on their special day?   What kind of a system is this?

Mother's Day for me is lacking two children, Lisa and Michael who was killed in an auto accident.  But, Washington gave me the title of Mother of Victim Notification, so I'll fly that flag, and be mother to all  of women for whom I work.  I call them Lisa's sisters. I sincerely hope that you're having the kind of Mother's Day you deserve.  Remember to keep the children safe from mayhem and harm, it's the most important job you'll ever have.


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HERE I GO AGAIN!!

9/5/2011

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Just received a request from the national criminal justice association to return to Washington to do some filming for extension of training and awareness films. 

This will be in mid October.

Do you think I have time for a face lift and liposuction? 

All this and I never knew Washington knew my name. 

The culmination of a dream I hardly dared dream. 

Love to all those who continue the movement and all of Lisa's sisters in circumstance.

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MY WASHINGTON INVITATION

4/27/2011

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i WANT TO SHARE WITH ALL OF YOU THE GREAT HONOR i WAS AWARDED BY BEING INVITED TO WASHINGTON TO BE A PART OF THE NATIONAL CRIMINAL JUSTICE ASSOCIATIONS WEEK LONG PROGRAM.  I WAS TREATED LIKE VISITING ROYALTY AND MET THE PEOPLE i HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR SINCE LISA'S MURDER.  I'M VERY HAPPY TO TELL YOU THAT GOOD THINGS HAVE BEEN HAPPENING FOR VICITMS,  LONG WAY TO GO, BUT  THEY ARE DILIGENT IN THEIR PURPOSE.  I'VE ALWAYS KNOWN THAT THINGS WOULD NEEED TO REACH THE FEDERAL LEVEL TO INSURE ACCOUNTABILTY FROM ALL AREAS , CITY, COUNTY, STATE, BECAUSE THEY ALL HAVE BEEN HANDLING OR NOT HANDLING AS THEY PLEASED.
iI WAS TOLD THAT HEARING MY PERSONAL STORY WAS INSPIRING AND THAT MY REMARKS WERE ESSENTION TO SETTING THE PERFECT TONE FOR THE ENTIRE NATIONAL WORKSHOP.

YESTERDAY I RECEIVED A LETTER FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF THE NATIONAL CRIMINAL JUSTICE ASSOCIATION .  BECAUSE OF MY WORK ON BEHALF OF VICTIMS FOR DECADES  (HOW CAN THAT BE?) I'VE BEEN OFFICIALLY DESIGNATED WITH THE TITLE OF "MOTHER OF VICTIM NOTIFICATION".  IS THAT WONDROUS OR WHAT? i NEVER MADE A CENT, DID WHAT I LOVED FOR LISA AND HER SISTERS AND NO AMOUNT OF MONEY COULD BUY THESE REWARDS!
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THANKS TO MICHIANA, SOUTH BEND, MISHAWAKA, ELKHART

8/5/2010

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THE HITS ON THIS WEBSITE HAVE SPIKED AND I WANT TO THANK CHERYL AND  ALL MY FRIENDS IN THE MICHIANA AREA FOR THEIR HELP IN RESEARCHING AND VISITING THE SITE.  MY MISSION HAS ALWAYS BEEN TO INFORM THE PUBLIC OF WHAT LURKS BEHIND CLOSED DOORS IN THE AREA OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.  PLEASE LEARN AND REMEMBER.  I THANK YOU AND I KNOW LISA WOULD, TOO.
MILLIE BIANCO
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7/22/2010

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HIDING FROM DETAILS OF LISA BIANCO'S MURDER, LOCAL PRESS SHUNS BOOK

While getting good response and exposure to Who Killed Lana B? in my new home state and areas outside South Bend, Mishawaka and Elkhart,, the major newspapers in South Bend and Elkhart,  Indiana refused to print press releases on my  book.
What does that tell you?  Some things they would like to keep from the public?  Some things not good Chamber of Commerce material?  Some people pull shady stuff?. These are the things you need to know.  During the time of the big story and my work on behalf of domestic violence victims, I was the media darling. That was when I had to be somewhat "politically correct".  The book is not, and I am so happy to be able to divulge some of the "secrets of the system".  Take advantage and learn  from Lisa.
Millie
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WORD PICTURES OF LISA AND MILLIE BIANCO AND THE GIRLS

3/16/2010

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HI,
I HOPE TO BE ABLE TO GET YOU SOME PICTURES IN THE NEXT FEW WEEKS.  'TILL THEN HERE'S A LITTLE ABOUT US.     

I GREW UP ON A FARM IN MICHIGAN AND LOVE NATURE.  MY MOM DIED WHEN I WAS ELEVEN AND I BECAME THE MOTHER OF THE HOUSE.  I DIDN'T KNOW I COULDN'T DO IT, SO I DID.
LISA'S OLDEST DAUGHTER IS FAIR SKINNED, TALL AND BLOND AND ATTRACTIVE LIKE HER DAD.  SHE GRADUATED FROM EMORY UNIVERSITY AND GOT HER MASTER'S AT NORTHWESTERN., (THANKS TO HER TRUST.)  SHE LIVES IN OHIO AND WORKS IN SALES AND M,ARKETING FOR A MAJOR COMPANY..
THE YOUNGER IS DARK HAIRED AND OLIVE COMPLEXIONED LIKE LISA AND LOOKS A LOT LIKE HER, IN OTHER WORDS, BEAUTIFUL.  SHE'S WORKED IN THE MEDICAL AND MEDICAL INSURANCE FIELD AND HER FAVORITE PROFESSION IS MOM AND HAS THREE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN.   LISA HAD A SOFT VOICE AND LOVING NATURE, AND STOOD ALMOST 5'2.  (LIKE HER M0M), EXCEPT THAT I'M SORTA KINDA BLOND. AND FAIR SKINNED..  JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW US A LITTLE BIT.
TODAY'S  THING TO REMEMBER;---LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE ANYONE ELSE EXCEPT YOUR CHILDREN.
MILLIE
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THE PRICE LISA AND MILLIE BIANCO PAID FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE VICTIMS

3/15/2010

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HI,
The American author, James Baldwin said:

"The price one pays for pursuing any profession, or calling (I would add experience) is an intimate knowledge of it's ugly side."

Lisa paid the ultimate price and I am here not only   to show you the ugly side, but to try to help you from experiencing it.

I love society and all Lisa's sisters.

First and foremost, know that you are a valuable person and have the right to be free of anyone who would harm you in any way.   You have what it takes, all you have to do is help yourself.  Help is out there for us, but we have to recognize the need.
First and foremost, LOVE AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF!





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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

1/30/2010

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I was a young mother who always thought that the legal system was fair and balanced and that women had pretty much achieved equality.  I was shocked and horrified at how not true that was.  I experienced it first hand with my daughter, Lisa Bianco, her experiences and eventually, her murder by her ex-husband, Alan Matheney.   I then became a victim's advocate and worked in legislation and learned more.  I vowed at the height of our fleeing from the stalker's hunt that someday I would attempt to educate the public as to what it's really like for women and attempt to define why this is true. The book is titled "Who Killed Lana B?"  I do not, however, excuse domestic violence from women nor any use of the system to intimidate a man. My book will be controversial because, unlike my lobbying days, political correctness will not be a priority.  There is general research along with what I call my considered opinions based on my experiences.  It is not a "for women only" book, but a book for everyone.   Who Killed Lana B?     Who  do you think?                                                                         
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