Mother's Day for me is lacking two children, Lisa and Michael who was killed in an auto accident. But, Washington gave me the title of Mother of Victim Notification, so I'll fly that flag, and be mother to all of women for whom I work. I call them Lisa's sisters. I sincerely hope that you're having the kind of Mother's Day you deserve. Remember to keep the children safe from mayhem and harm, it's the most important job you'll ever have.
I remember another Mothers Day when the girls, Brooke and Amber were 6 and 10. Lisa's lawyer had told her to get out of town because there was no stopping a man obsessed and to whom a restraining order was just a piece of paper. We took off in the dark of night, like fugitives. We stayed in off-the-road motels and once in a friend's summer cottage. We were staying in one of the out-of-sight motels. I woke up Mother's Day morning to find that Lisa had managed to waken the girls and leave before I woke up. She soon returned with breakfast from McDonalds and she presented me with a Mothers coffee mug that she had managed to pick up during our travels. Running for her life and treating her mother on her day. Isn't that what all mothers do on their special day? What kind of a system is this?
Mother's Day for me is lacking two children, Lisa and Michael who was killed in an auto accident. But, Washington gave me the title of Mother of Victim Notification, so I'll fly that flag, and be mother to all of women for whom I work. I call them Lisa's sisters. I sincerely hope that you're having the kind of Mother's Day you deserve. Remember to keep the children safe from mayhem and harm, it's the most important job you'll ever have.
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i WANT TO SHARE WITH ALL OF YOU THE GREAT HONOR i WAS AWARDED BY BEING INVITED TO WASHINGTON TO BE A PART OF THE NATIONAL CRIMINAL JUSTICE ASSOCIATIONS WEEK LONG PROGRAM. I WAS TREATED LIKE VISITING ROYALTY AND MET THE PEOPLE i HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR SINCE LISA'S MURDER. I'M VERY HAPPY TO TELL YOU THAT GOOD THINGS HAVE BEEN HAPPENING FOR VICITMS, LONG WAY TO GO, BUT THEY ARE DILIGENT IN THEIR PURPOSE. I'VE ALWAYS KNOWN THAT THINGS WOULD NEEED TO REACH THE FEDERAL LEVEL TO INSURE ACCOUNTABILTY FROM ALL AREAS , CITY, COUNTY, STATE, BECAUSE THEY ALL HAVE BEEN HANDLING OR NOT HANDLING AS THEY PLEASED.
iI WAS TOLD THAT HEARING MY PERSONAL STORY WAS INSPIRING AND THAT MY REMARKS WERE ESSENTION TO SETTING THE PERFECT TONE FOR THE ENTIRE NATIONAL WORKSHOP. YESTERDAY I RECEIVED A LETTER FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF THE NATIONAL CRIMINAL JUSTICE ASSOCIATION . BECAUSE OF MY WORK ON BEHALF OF VICTIMS FOR DECADES (HOW CAN THAT BE?) I'VE BEEN OFFICIALLY DESIGNATED WITH THE TITLE OF "MOTHER OF VICTIM NOTIFICATION". IS THAT WONDROUS OR WHAT? i NEVER MADE A CENT, DID WHAT I LOVED FOR LISA AND HER SISTERS AND NO AMOUNT OF MONEY COULD BUY THESE REWARDS! |