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MORE CLUES IN PICKING THE RIGHT MAN

4/27/2010

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KNOW THAT THE SYSTEM IS NOT GOING TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN THE REGULAR DOMESTIC SPATS AND THE WOMAN WHO LEAVES AND IS CONSTANTLY FOLLOWED, HARRASSED, VIOLATED AND THE SITUATION IS GOING TO ESCALATE.  THE ODDS THAT A WOMAN IS MORE LIKELY TO BE KILLED IF SHE LEAVES ARE GREAT.THE ONLY WAY THIS MIGHT BE AVERTED IS IF THERE IS AN IMMEDIATE AND DEFINITIVE PROGRAM FOR THE ABUSER AND VICTIM FROM THE FIRST INCIDENT.  THESE ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN.  THE LEGAL SYSTEM DOES NOT HAVE MUCH IN THE WAY OF "YOU CAN'T DO THAT ANYMORE".

AN EVEN BETTER THOUGHT IS PREVENTION.  THE SELF-IMPOSED IDENTITY OF A WOMAN WHO "CAN'T MAKE IT ON HER OWN" IS ONE THAT WILL ENCOURAGE A WOMAN TO PICK ANY MAN, EVEN IF HE IS THE WRONG ONE.  THE BOTTOM FEEDERS ARE EASY TO FIND.  BECOME ALL THAT YOU CAN BE AND LIKE YOURSELF ON YOUR OWN.  VALUE YOURSELF!

IF YOU DON'T KNOW, A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE A SAFE HAVEN.  IF YOU ARE A PERSON WHO IS SYMPATHETIC AND THINKS THAT  MAN'S PAST IS THE PAST, THINK THAT THOSE NEGATIVE THINGS ARE LIES OR THAT YOU CAN REFORM HIM, DO NOT FOOL YOURSELF INTO THINKING THAT YOU CAN CHANGE HIM!  YOUR GOOD QUALITIES WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU.  DON'T JUST LOOK FOR GOOD QUALITIES.  PROCEED WITH CAUTION.  CHECK HIM OUT!  WHAT'S THE HURRY? IF YOU ARE DELIBERATELY HARMED PHYSICALL OR MENTALLY, RUN WHILE YOU CAN.REMEMBER, LISA'S MURDERER SAID THAT HE ONLY SLAPPED HER ONCE.  THERE'S SOMEONE BETTER FOR YOU.
TAKE GOOD CARE OF NUMBER ONE AND THAT'S YOU.

TAKING LISA'S MESSAGES TO YOU.
MILLIE
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